Comments on: Banning spanking in Massachusetts?

By: John

John — Mon, 03 Dec 2007 17:52:19 +0000

As native of MA…I think this is just another example of misdirected over-legislation. The problem is that this law will do very little, if anything, to deter child abuse. At some point, if passed, this law will undoubtedly victimize some very undeserving parents.

On the other hand…it is a little surprising to hear so many people who believe that hitting your child out of love or concern is somehow more acceptable than doing so out of anger.
I’d like to see your reactions if your boss took the same point of view with you when you’ve made a mistake.

By: Antonio U. Espejo

Antonio U. Espejo — Fri, 30 Nov 2007 02:17:21 +0000

here is another example of politicians and lawmakers making a ridiculous law and probably don’t have any kids of their own.

By: Jason Barney

Jason Barney — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 22:19:21 +0000

Spanking should be safe, legal and rare!

By: Rachel Bridges

Rachel Bridges — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 18:45:41 +0000

I strongly disagree with this, as a child my mom would spank me and my siblings and to be honest i believe it helped us for the better. Now i am 18 but when i was 6 years old I was almost taken away from my mother when she spanked me outside of a toys-r-us, but I stood up for my mom, no one could believe it they thought I would be against her for abuse and would be glad to get rid of it, but in my opinion it is just a form of discipline and if more parents now would show some discipline to there kids we would have a better America. Kids now in this day of age are so rebellious and so spoiled it sickens me to my very core! Now don’t get me wrong there is a certain point in which it could be too much, but if its just a couple of swats on the child’s bottom I see no problem in that. But parents should be allowed to discipline their children without the Civil government interfering.

By: David Schwartz

David Schwartz — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 03:49:12 +0000

I have the right to hit my children just as I have the right to shoot my television. Where you have the right to step in is when it is in fact abuse. To claim that all physical punishment of children of all ages is abuse is simply absurd.

By: MTBec

MTBec — Thu, 29 Nov 2007 00:24:36 +0000

Perhaps some of the difficulty in clearly demarcating spanking from assault comes from inappropriate consideration of children as equivalent to ‘tiny adults’, as well as overly generous definitions of assault.

By: Joe

Joe — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 18:45:37 +0000

Spanking with a quick swat of a hand is not child abuse, my parents disciplined me in this manner. However, punching, or using a belt IS child abuse, and parents (or other caregivers) who do this should be punished for this behavior.

By: Deoxy

Deoxy — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 17:36:36 +0000

Adults DO have the right, indeed, the OBLIGATION to “hit” defenseless children.

We refer to it as “spanking” to differentiate appropriate disciplinary action from gratuitous abuse.

If you can’t understand that there is a difference, how can you accept pople being held against their will in prison? The concept is exactly the same.

By: Bob Montgomery

Bob Montgomery — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 14:00:25 +0000

Hitting is different from spanking.

When it isn’t is when it becomes child abuse.

By: Heather

Heather — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 12:29:57 +0000

If you spank a child who tries to crawl on the stove, you’re a child abuser and you go to jail and the state takes your children.

If you allow the child to crawl on the stove and they get burned, you’re a child neglecter and you go to jail and the state takes your children.

Why not just let the state confiscate all children after birth, to be raised in communal state facilities? Skip and the MA legislature believe you have no right to raise your own children as you see fit, why not take the next logical step here?